For fast-acting relief, try slowing down.
~Lily Tomlin
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For almost three years, I have embraced the concept of not only planning {outside the lines} but also living — a gently ordering my private world — ever-so-splendidly outside the lines!
While it was a wee bit disconcerting as first — I consider to be one of my very best life-changes.
This feat was accomplished by making it my intention to focus on what {could be} instead of {what was}. Instead of all the times I “tried and stopped” …
I incorporated creAtive day-planning techniques in the way I organized my life {my work, my dreams, my miscellany and my eclectic, art-full moments!} and other miscellaneous tasks and actions in the direction of my dreams.
It began with stickers, color markers and highlighters in my {extremely} left-brain day-planner. (Read: FranklinCovey <= who have “loosened up” a bit with time!
) Complete with its lines and boxes to check, the linear record system … etc. etc. However, I began to add creAtive {addendums} to my planner — extra pages for pattern and color, collaged items or Post-it® notes for creAtivity, for thoughts, quotations and random ponderings.
From there I began to compile daily lists of regular activities using MS Word; then I would print a weekly list (or even an occasional Master To-Do list, etc.) — adding colorful design elements and eye-catching markings via markers, Post-it® notes, stickers and assorted labels, cut-outs, and even strips of torn paper from my junk mail and newspaper or magazine pages. I eventually “graduated” to collage-journal pages within my new eclectic, outside-the-lines {planners} … In the form of wired-bound journals or altered books [images].
Why it is that we often lose the wonder of childhood coloring pages and “art projects” like doodling and such?
Remember? When purple or green was a fabulous choice for hair and coloring outside the lines was perfectly acceptable?
If we could perhaps recover just a bit of that freedom (and curiosity) — life would {feel} so much easier — or, at the very least, be more colorful!
And we wouldn’t have to relearn how to play, to have fun and do what we want during the days of our lives. (Read: Attend seminars and workshops, pore of over countless books and hire pricey consultants …)
Because life is rather complicated and a bit of artist freedom, a scoop of vibrant color with a dash of imagination is like a spoon full of sugar (to help the medicine go down)!
Otherwise … Ugh! … exploring possibilities and the flight patterns for spur of the moment trips tends to blur from view. We establish impregnable boundaries, lock-boxes to keep everything in its place; structure eclipses spontaneity and deadlines stream in each day single (and double) file.
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Sometimes we must allow ourselves time to simply be … Or perhaps …
I am currently viewing life through “Vacation Eyes” … Something I tend to do during the month of August, since I consider September as my {second} new year beginning. Jottings and random collections of plans amidst days without deadlines and weeks dotted by time with friends and family.
How often do you schedule time off? Days off? Extended vacations?
What concerns do you have when you are not “in the office”?
How are your days “on” different from your days “off”?
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Does change {feel} elusive? Do you {feel} like your “try hard” only to “give up”?
Could it be that you expect progress to occur faster humanly possible? Sort of like those darn notorious {new year’s resolutions} people make, hoping something magic happens at 12:01 a.m. in the “new year”?!
Today is Mile Marker #230 for this year of creAtive-planning: Day 230 of 2010. There are 135 days until the end of the year of 2010. Let’s agree to resume {instead of starting over; feeling guilty} and allow ourselves a bit of time for creAtive planning [link]. Or perhaps you simply need to “Just press, Play …”
I have continually {re}discovered the benefits of resuming instead of starting over, by putting one foot in front of the other in the direction of my dreams. Those fabulous {mini-steps} along the road to Progress, made possible by letting go of random and miscellaneous thoughts of the past {the wouldas, couldas, shouldas}.
What do you need to resume?
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Being in the midst of extended vacation days, I am grateful to feel unwound and defragged. The proverbial white board being freshly erased and cleaned, ready for new jottings, notations and plans. Family gatherings, lazy summer days and movie nights have allowed my mind the freedom to ponder random ideas without the ringing alarm of deadlines.
Despite being on vacation from my work, I did keep my weekly appointment with a colleague this morning. It is a mile marker for both of us; and our hour-long, online meetings prove to inspire, clarify and keep us both on-track!
This is also an element of my ritual of counting days. Sort of a new thing, sorta not. Basically, the habit of planning the days {weeks, months and years} between dates I assign to my goals and projects {and vacations!}.
I used to be concerned about time off from work. Freelancing can be a crazy way to earn income due to the {often faulty} belief: If I am not working, I am not earning. However, part of a freelancer’s offering is to inspire “out of the box” thinking. Such thought is a renewable resource — thus, it must be renewed.
Time off work, vacations, creative scheduling — all of these options provide us with a new perspective. We can return to work or a routine with a new way of seeing our skill set and expertise, a client project or even the way we value and “count” our days. Another bonus: Burnout can be completely avoided with a routine sprinkling of time off!
In the midst of my daily quiet times {even — and especially — for days-without-deadlines} I continue to collage-plan {how-to collage journal}, art journal, and mind-map.
How often do you schedule time off? Days off? Extended vacations?
What concerns do you have when you are not “in the office”?
How are your days “on” different from your days “off”?
P.S. Regarding counting days, I have not personally used the following resources but they provide you with some ideas for keeping a visual count{down} of your days …
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Ever wonder why checklists, calendars and daily schedules don’t work for you? Perhaps you have even parked yourself at the corner of Discovery and Realization in hopes of learning why daily schedules seem to be a recipe for hair-pulling frustration and emotional dead-ends. Well, I started a list!
Despite 25 years of consulting, listening and teaching {and my own trial and error!
} I keep expecting {hopin’ and wishin’} that I will not stumble into random, garden-variety forms of schedule worship, planner-envy and just plain ‘ol aggravation over my personal stash of schedule forms, planners and calendars!
Alas, I stumble. I fall. I get back up!
Right Brain Planner is a resource for creAtive-minded, color-outside-the-lines folks who typically see their days in random sequences — and rarely in straight lines. With the mission of developing a collaborative {wiki} planning system — accommodating the distinct flow of the creAtive mind — by and for creAtive, right brain thinkers and life-doers.
♦ More about creAtive planning.
♦ Fabulous list of creative brainstorming quotations!
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I have a swirled response to that idea. Because sometimes knowing what you want becomes a work-in-progress, and the passionate intensity with which you pursue it is indeed {enough}. You simply are not “there” yet!
You are merely collecting and weaving selected “threads” to creAte the homespun yarn in which you will fashion the next phase of your success. Succeeding — accomplishing your intended goal(s) in succession — is a process {visual: the yarn in the image}:
How do you determine what you want?
Are you willing to admit {and embrace} that what you want is a more of a journey than a destination?
What stories do your proverbial handspun yarns tell?
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The romantic view of a freelancer {living the dream} is accurate to a point; but there is a definite down side when it comes to the costs of freelancing and the ugliness of project (and client) management. Then there is the reality of learning to “clock-out” and have a life separate from working all the time!
Here are some excellent resources for freelancers and rural solopreneurs {and for learning more about said good, bad and ugly!
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This is simply my quick {and random} review of resources. What are your recommendations?
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Yep. I used the “s” word; the dreaded linear tool creAtives typically love to live without. However, the road to distraction and lost clients are paved with a freelancer’s good intentions!
So … how about we accomplish this task creAtively?
1. Begin with compiling a list, using:
2. Dump the mental chatter and create a Master To-D0 list.
3. Divide and conquer. You didn’t accumulate this list in a day — and you will not conquer it in a day!
4. Use a Master Calendar(s) {daily, weekly and.or monthly}.
5. Assign day(s) and times {or blocks of time} for:
Include self-care first; if you don’t take care of yourself, you are not adequately equipped to consult, freelance for or take care of anyone {or anything} else. [Read: You will burnout!
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This is merely a suggested mode of determining a schedule. Your mileage may vary.
Trial and error is the best teacher. Don’t wait for the {perfect} planning method or tool — creAte your own system. Get started now!
Even if you merely accomplish Step One, that is progress!
Dear creAtive planner: We know there is no one-size-fits-all method of planning. What scheduling tools do you use?
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We have all heard it takes 21-days to form new habits. So-o, let’s celebrate the middle of summer and determine to adopt a new habit by July 31st!
I know some of you committed to do work on your artistic goals this summer. How is that going? {Remember: Baby steps count! ♥ }
Dump any guilt or coulda, woulda, shoulda’s. {Immediately!
} Forget all the times before and give yourself permission to plan the next 5-minutes. If you are feeling motivated, plan the next 15-minutes or the next few hours.
Change occurs the moment we decide do move in a different direction. It continues for as long as we maintain momentum — and there is “A time for everything“! Including wandering, making art, naps, doodling, doddling — and screaming — when we are sure what to do.
Are you stretching yourself? Give yourself room to move … Perhaps you simply need to “Begin with The End in Mind” or tackle a few 10-minute organization projects.
If you have some time, consider the excellent reflective points of “6 Proven Ways To Make New Habits Stick” and journal or collage your thoughts.
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